Okay! You think you've got something going with someone you really like and then...wham! You have your first big disagreement... Or they stop calling or seem to start back peddling in the relationship and you're clueless as to what happened or what's going on. Or maybe it's hit this weird lull where things seem to slowed to a crawl between you two and neither of you are sure what you feel about what's going on. Or perhaps you two have been together a long time at this point and have weathered the storms of previous difficulties and periods of doubt but this time it just seems to be getting worse. Or maybe you've realized that this person, wonderful though they are as a person and great as the sex is , is completely irresponsible financially and has problems keeping a job. What do you do?